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第52章人生从跟对人开始

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DontFollowtheFollower

?厄尔·南丁格尔EarlNightingale

&ofpeopleneversucceedbecausethey’refollowingthewronggroup.

Proarycaterpillarstravelinlong,undulatingliurebehiher.JeanHaheFreomologist,onceleadagroupofthesecaterpillarsontotherimeflowerpotsothattheleaderoftheproselfailwiththelastcaterpillarintheproingacirclewithinning.

Throughsheerforceofhabitand,ofstinct,theringofcaterpillarscircledtheflowerpotforsevendaysas,untiltheydiedfromexhaustionandstarvation.Anamplesupplyoffoodwascloseathandandplainlyvisible,butitwasoutsidetherahecircle,sothecaterpillarsuedaloh.

&enbehaveinasimilaratternsandwaysofthinkingbeedeeplyestablished,anditseemseasieraingtofolloewithge,evegemayrepresentfreedom,at,andsuccess.

Ifsomeos,“Fire!”

itisautomatidlyfollowtheanythousandshaveneedlesslydiedbecauseofit.Hotoaskthemselves:Isthisreallythebestwayoutofhere?

Somaheboat”

becauseit’seasieraingtofollow-to-followwithoutquestioningthequalifisofthepeoplejustahead—thantodosomeihinkingandg.

Ahardthingformostpeopletofullyuandisthatpeopleinsuumbersbes,likethecaterpillarsgoingaroundandarouheflowerpot,withlifeandfoodjustashortdistanceaway.Ifmostpethatway,itmustberight,theythink.Butalittlegwillrevealthatthroughoutallrecordedhistorythemajorityofmankindhasanunbrokenrecordofbeingwrongaboutmostthings,especiallyimportantthings.ForatimewethoughttheEarthwasflatahoughtthesun,stars,araveledarouh.

Bothideasarenowsideredridiculous,butatthetimetheywerebelievedahevastmajorityoffollowers.Inthehindsightofhistorywemusthavelookedlikethosecaterpillarsblindlyfollowingthefolloweroutofhabitratherthaofliolookforthetruth.

It’sdifficultforpeopletoetotheuandingthatonlyasmallminorityofpeetthewordaboutlife,aboutlivingabundantlyandsuccessfully.Sutheimportasoflifeseldomesnaturally,urallythaanything—amusistrument,sports,fly-fishing,tennis,golf,business,marriage,parenthood.

Butforsomereasopassivelyforsuetothem—likethecaterpillarsgoingaroundiingforsustenance,followiail—livingasotherpeintheuassumptionthatotherpeopleknowhowtolivesuccessfully.

It’sagoodideatostepoutofthelineeveryonawhileandlookarouhelineisgoiittogo.Ifitisnot,itmightbetimeforanewleaderaion.

95%的人从来没有成功过,只因为他们选择了错误的跟从对象。

毛虫排着长长的队伍爬行着,一个接着一个。

法国昆虫学家吉恩·亨利·法布尔曾引导一支毛虫队伍来到一个大花盆的边沿上,领队的毛虫追上了队尾的那只,首尾相接,形成了一个圆圈。

完全出于习惯,当然还有本能的因素,这支队伍绕着花盆爬行了七天七夜,最后筋疲力尽,饥饿而死。

其实在它们附近就有充足的食物,而且这些食物显而易见,只不过它们被放在了毛虫的圈外。

毛虫就这样一直沿着错误的路线爬行下去。

人类也经常这样行事。

当做事习惯与思考方式已经形成时,人们更容易遵循贯有的方式,而不是创新,即使这种改变可能意味着自由、功绩和成功。

如果有人喊“着火了”

,人们就会无意识地、盲目地跟着人群跑,很多人就因此而白白丧生。

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